Today I stumbled upon the perfect phrase to describe the way people can make me feel sometimes.
Grass on a fish hook.
There's a man fishing in the big blue. He's more than ready to catch him the biggest, prettiest fish he's ever seen. He'll be glowing when he brings her home. So he's out there with his line in the water and he gives it a routine little flick of the wrist. There's a tension on the line! Something has bit! He's more than excited as he quickly winds up the line, closing the deal. He pulls it out of the water with a huge smile on his face.
And in an instant, it fades. It is just a clump of grass that grabbed hold of his hook. He spends the following 2 minutes pulling off the grass and throwing it back in the water. Angry because of the wasted excitement and time. Once he cleans the hook, he casts it back into the blue. More attentive to the slack in the line as to avoid another run-in with the grass.
Grass isn't useless. You can easily list at least a dozen different ways grass is wonderful! Some people love it and think its beautiful, others like it but don't care. Nobody hates grass, though. But some how, even the most useful, nice, commonplace thing can be regarded as nothing but a burden. Nothing but trash. It just takes that one person.
Even if you're not a beautiful fish that everyone seems to be fishing for, don't let anyone let you think that you're worthless because you're a clump of grass.
You'll find someone who looks at you and appreciates what you are. Weather it be a friend, a family member, or a future spouse. They will see the beauty in the common place.
Stand tall little grass clump.
Thursday, October 10, 2013
Saturday, October 5, 2013
The First
I had to share this because it is probably the best written, most humorous bit of liturature I've ever written. This is an un-dramitized re-telling, believe it or not, of my actual first day of public school. Sophomore year. Lol. Enjoy!
I have to say I'm relatively confident, but every ounce of me was nervous and self-conscious that day. I was shaking and having troubles swallowing as I walked into the office and muttered in a half-dead voice, "There's a blue Ford pick-up with their lights on." The office lady was so kind, "What was that, dear? Oh! A car! Write it down here and we'll announce it later." I nodded, assuming trying to use my vocal chords was more trouble than a "yes, ma'am" is worth. I ducked my head as I entered the hallway.
If you ask me today, what my experience was then, I'll use the phrase "like a Disney movie". One thing they always show in Disney movies is the girl getting books knocked out of her hands by the love of her life in the hallways. One thing they fail to portray is the rules of the road, high school hallway edition. You'd think I would pick up on the rules pretty quick; they're basically the same as a highway. But within 2 minutes I seemed to have broken every untold law of the infamous senior hallway.
People were begining to stare. I was flustered and forgot where I was going so I shuffled to the side of the hallway and pulled out my schedule. A teacher noticed my struggles and helped me out. Turns out he was my art teacher! Easy enough. He hooked a thumb to the door and I walked in. High school students are a very different breed. All the girls look different in the same ways. As though there were only 3-5 hairstyles and colors that were acceptable and you could wear whatever clothes you wanted as long as they looked a certain way. The boys are easy to group too. One thing I can say high-schoolers are good at is following stereotypes. The categories were sporty, overdressed, dorky (normal), artsy, and I-don't-give-a-sh** the last of which normally involved a lot of black and skulls and/or cowboy boots.
In my first hour there were mostly sporty and dorky kids. I actually knew a couple of them from soccer and swim team. All I could think was I had to make a good imppression. I officially represented every homeschooler and christian in the entire metro area. The teacher, Mr. Harvey, came in and introdused himself. He was not only the art teacher but also the boys' varsity basketball coach and a darn good one at that. I made it through most of class without talking. But by the time class was over, I hated my teacher. He had rules like "You can only use wood, #2 pencils". I had been drawing with the same mechanical pencil for the past 5 years. There ain't no way some art teacher was gunna make me change that.
I left, worried and stressed as I tried to get to my next class. Geometry extended. I didn't do very well in my algebra 1 class so the counseler placed me in a 'slower paced' class. Oh how little he knew...
I was the first in class. The teacher was a young, kind of round man. Welcoming smile. He knew my name and shook my hand and returned to typing on his computer. I sat down at what has become my signature seat: second isle from the middle, second row from the front. I pulled out my notebook pretending to doodle. In all honesty I was shaking and trying not to show how nervous I was.
The first boy came in. He was tall but you couldn't tell because he was hunched over and wringing his hands. He looked around the room and seemed to be muttering to himself. "How you doin' John!" The teacher, Mr. Worthington, called out. John looked around, "I-I-I don't know..." John sat down two seats away from me and started scratching his desk. In that moment he was dubbed "Creepy John" in my head and I referred to him as such in all my stories.
Next came a girl in a wheel chair and her friend pushing it. The girl in the wheel chair you could hear from the other end of school. Her voice was the kind that made your ears bleed. Her friend was quiet and just laughed politely. They both had more piercings than I've ever seen on anyone in person, straitened gothic style hair and a whole stick of eyeliner. John suddenly growled and stood hunched in his seat as he screamed at the top of his lungs ( and please excuse the language), "CHLOE STORM, YOU BITCH! What are you doing here!?" I shook in my seat. Just then John charged for Chloe and she laughed! "Oh, John, it's good to see you too." He growled again and went for her throat till Mr. Worthington called him off. John dropped his arms and darkly slunk back to his seat. The others came one by one. Chris, a tall, ugly kid with a mole the size of a dinner plate on his neck. Becky, the druggy gone christian-ish. Lexi, bleach blond, cute as a button, brainless sweetheart. And two others, one dropped out of school and the other changed schools because she broke her hand on someone's face.
Then there was me...
I have to say I'm relatively confident, but every ounce of me was nervous and self-conscious that day. I was shaking and having troubles swallowing as I walked into the office and muttered in a half-dead voice, "There's a blue Ford pick-up with their lights on." The office lady was so kind, "What was that, dear? Oh! A car! Write it down here and we'll announce it later." I nodded, assuming trying to use my vocal chords was more trouble than a "yes, ma'am" is worth. I ducked my head as I entered the hallway.
If you ask me today, what my experience was then, I'll use the phrase "like a Disney movie". One thing they always show in Disney movies is the girl getting books knocked out of her hands by the love of her life in the hallways. One thing they fail to portray is the rules of the road, high school hallway edition. You'd think I would pick up on the rules pretty quick; they're basically the same as a highway. But within 2 minutes I seemed to have broken every untold law of the infamous senior hallway.
People were begining to stare. I was flustered and forgot where I was going so I shuffled to the side of the hallway and pulled out my schedule. A teacher noticed my struggles and helped me out. Turns out he was my art teacher! Easy enough. He hooked a thumb to the door and I walked in. High school students are a very different breed. All the girls look different in the same ways. As though there were only 3-5 hairstyles and colors that were acceptable and you could wear whatever clothes you wanted as long as they looked a certain way. The boys are easy to group too. One thing I can say high-schoolers are good at is following stereotypes. The categories were sporty, overdressed, dorky (normal), artsy, and I-don't-give-a-sh** the last of which normally involved a lot of black and skulls and/or cowboy boots.
In my first hour there were mostly sporty and dorky kids. I actually knew a couple of them from soccer and swim team. All I could think was I had to make a good imppression. I officially represented every homeschooler and christian in the entire metro area. The teacher, Mr. Harvey, came in and introdused himself. He was not only the art teacher but also the boys' varsity basketball coach and a darn good one at that. I made it through most of class without talking. But by the time class was over, I hated my teacher. He had rules like "You can only use wood, #2 pencils". I had been drawing with the same mechanical pencil for the past 5 years. There ain't no way some art teacher was gunna make me change that.
I left, worried and stressed as I tried to get to my next class. Geometry extended. I didn't do very well in my algebra 1 class so the counseler placed me in a 'slower paced' class. Oh how little he knew...
I was the first in class. The teacher was a young, kind of round man. Welcoming smile. He knew my name and shook my hand and returned to typing on his computer. I sat down at what has become my signature seat: second isle from the middle, second row from the front. I pulled out my notebook pretending to doodle. In all honesty I was shaking and trying not to show how nervous I was.
The first boy came in. He was tall but you couldn't tell because he was hunched over and wringing his hands. He looked around the room and seemed to be muttering to himself. "How you doin' John!" The teacher, Mr. Worthington, called out. John looked around, "I-I-I don't know..." John sat down two seats away from me and started scratching his desk. In that moment he was dubbed "Creepy John" in my head and I referred to him as such in all my stories.
Next came a girl in a wheel chair and her friend pushing it. The girl in the wheel chair you could hear from the other end of school. Her voice was the kind that made your ears bleed. Her friend was quiet and just laughed politely. They both had more piercings than I've ever seen on anyone in person, straitened gothic style hair and a whole stick of eyeliner. John suddenly growled and stood hunched in his seat as he screamed at the top of his lungs ( and please excuse the language), "CHLOE STORM, YOU BITCH! What are you doing here!?" I shook in my seat. Just then John charged for Chloe and she laughed! "Oh, John, it's good to see you too." He growled again and went for her throat till Mr. Worthington called him off. John dropped his arms and darkly slunk back to his seat. The others came one by one. Chris, a tall, ugly kid with a mole the size of a dinner plate on his neck. Becky, the druggy gone christian-ish. Lexi, bleach blond, cute as a button, brainless sweetheart. And two others, one dropped out of school and the other changed schools because she broke her hand on someone's face.
Then there was me...
Wednesday, October 2, 2013
The Open Door
As I finish the book "Paper Towns" by John Green, I've come to realize I don't much like reading because... I love it so much.
I thought the only reason I stopped reading for fun was because I started college, but no. That's not it at all. I stopped reading books because I can't stand the feeling once I've finished it. It's too similar to the daily aches and pains of growing older. The sense of "I can never go back." It's the feeling of "it's over." But worst of all it feels like saying Good-bye.
Over the years this has been my bigest fear and heart ache; saying good bye. I can't quite put it to words. You'll never be the same after this good bye. There's the possibility of never seeing that person again or sitting in your favorite spot in that house again. It's leaving the things you've learned to love hoping you'll learn to love like that again.
Good-bye opens the door to never-again. Never have I been so afraid of an open door.
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